Love & Life

On Being Everyone’s Friend

By on October 31, 2016

I had a realization tonight. I am everyone’s friend but not their best. And I am okay with that. Or I used to be.

I’ve had bouts of loneliness these past couple of months. Loneliness that was triggered by a misunderstanding on my 30th birthday. It made me question things about certain friendships. Things that were only in the back of my head that I’ve been trying to ignore until tonight.

I’d like to think I am a good friend. While I’m not the type to be on messenger with you 24/7, I can honestly say if you text me at 2AM and need me somewhere, I will do my best to be there.

I don’t begrudge my friends for having lives of their own. I’ve never been the type to get jealous about friends having other set of friends. It never occurred to me to be jealous because when you’re past 20, having a job of your own and exploring possibilities, you’re bound to meet more people and make connections.

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Photo Diary: Sweet Escape (Beach Edition)

By on March 30, 2016

I read for work. It sounds like a dream, right? While I honestly feel like I have no right to complain, it does get draining. There are times when I don’t even enjoy reading anymore because it’s all the same recycled plot, and I feel like my eyes are near bugging out from all the bullshit dialogues. There’s only so much Mary Sue heroines a girl can handle. Don’t even start with the I’m-an-asshole-and-I-have-issues-but-your-love-will-change-me hero because I might scream.

Like most jobs, I have good and bad days. On bad days, my boyfriend takes the brunt of all the moaning I do about how shitty things are. When complaining isn’t enough, a slice of pizza or two might make me forget. Often times, getting away from it all is the only cure.

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